The Single Girl Rules! Vol. 1

Okay lol, so here I am speaking (typing) about a topic that I never imagined would ever be so important to me: being single, 24, and setting the bar for the next relationship.....ughhhh lol.
I have very seldomly been the single girl in my short 24 years, but I most definitely am now...have been for about a year technically, so let me just bite the bullet and get to talking about it! Lol

So here are my single girl rules for today:

1. Ladies, we are to be pursued. Not the other way around. Tell these men to come correct or go home lol. Yeah, it's like that.
I mean, definitely check yourself and be sure that you're not being rude, or "stand-offish", especially if you actually like someone. But let him come after you. In my opinion it feels 100% better than the other way around. Take control of your emotions, do NOT contact him nearly as much as he contacts you..soooo for example: if he barely ever contacts you, then you barely NEVER contact him lol. He'll live. Trust me.

2. If you see potential but they're not living up to it...dang! Oh well, gotta let it go boo. Step back and watch what he's gonna do. But don't overlook anything that makes you pause. Remember your ex? Lol, he had potential didn't he?? (Ooooh, no offense to any exes who may be checking this out :/ I'm just saying though! LOL)

3. Know your worth. Take this time to learn yourself, play the field (respectfully of course!), and prepare for whatever is to come. Pray about it if you want the real thing and worst of all, but most importantly of all, be patient. And try to be sure not to settle.
This whole single thing is crazy, especially for someone who wants to be snatched up...but let's be real, forever is a loooong time! I can wait Lol...unless of course he would like to come now...:) LOL

But in hindsight, let's remember what is most important to us...and that's not necessarily a man. At least not in my case. I love the Lord, and He's still working on me. So I can imagine that He is still working on my mate as well. And if I am blessed to live to see true love on this Earth it will be well worth the wait and the bumpy ride. So I plan to do my best to be at peace and grounded and smiling everyday along the way. . . join me!

P.S. No worries, I'm talking to myself and yall b/c some days I'm sure I will refer to this and have to take my own advice.